How Do I Teach My Dog to Leave It?

Self-control keeps your dog safer in everyday life.

A Doberman demonstrates impulse control with its head at table height, and the handler spreads dog treats on the table just inches in front of the dogs’ face.

Why Dogs Grab Things

Dogs naturally investigate the world with their mouths.

  • Interesting objects are rewarding to explore. 
  • Chasing and grabbing are normal instincts. 
  • Dogs don't automatically know which objects are safe. 
  • Taking something usually means the dog hasn't yet learned another choice.

What Doesn't Help

Self-control is learned, not forced.

  • Chasing your dog after it grabs something. 
  • Turning every object into a game of keep-away. 
  • Expecting self-control before teaching it. 
  • Becoming angry when curiosity wins. 
  • Assuming your dog knows which things are dangerous.
A small dog sits looking at its unseen handler while treats lie on the floor within easy reach of the dog that appears to ignore the treats.
Teaching the dog self-control with the “leave it” exercise can become a showoff game for the handler and the dog.

What Does Help

Good choices become habits through consistent practice.

  • Teach your dog that waiting is rewarding. 
  • Practice with safe objects before real-life situations. 
  • Reward self-control consistently. 
  • Help your dog learn that some things belong to you. 
  • Build trust through clear, consistent expectations. 
  • Remember that self-control is learned one success at a time.

The Bigger Picture

Some situations call for waiting. Others require leaving an object alone completely. Developing that judgment makes dogs safer and easier to live with.

How DogSchooling Approaches Self-Control

At DogSchooling in Columbia, Missouri, we teach "Leave It" as more than a single command. We help dogs develop the self-control to make better choices around everyday temptations. As dogs learn to pause, think, and stay engaged with their handler, they become safer, more reliable, and easier to live with.

If you'd like help building that kind of self-control, our Basic Dog Training (Level 1) classes will show you how to develop those skills through clear communication, enjoyable practice, and teamwork.

To get started with us – Register for Basic Dog Training (Level 1)   Questions? Contact Us.

About the Author

Ann Gafke has spent more than 50 years helping families understand why dogs behave as they do before teaching how to change those behaviors. As founder of DogSchooling in Columbia, Missouri, she has worked with thousands of puppies, family dogs, therapy dogs, service dogs, and dogs with reactive or aggressive behaviors.

Why Families Choose DogSchooling

  • More than 50 years serving Mid-Missouri families 
  • Positive, reward-based training 
  • Weekly classes with private coaching included 
  • Video feedback between classes 
  • Puppy, family, therapy, service, and reactive dog programs